How to deal with other guys hitting on your girl?

Need some advice. A Crossfit gym manager is really gaming my girl and it’s making me uneasy. She’s been training there for a few months and the manager and herself both grew up in the same city, both into MMA and have a lot in common.

In fairness, she has told me everything that has happened so far (their conversations, etc.) but I know the guy is gaming her, as I have used many of these tactics to game other girls (being laid back, cool and casual, negging, etc).

I am also part of the MMA world but oddly enough no one I train with has ever heard of this guy (the community is small so we all know or know off one another). The guy is a crossfit manager, so pretty jacked, although he is bald and looks very old (even though I am older than he is).

In terms of her investment in me, she does love me, I have met her family, we’ve been together for over 9 months and we’re quite serious. She has made it very clear to me that she wants me in the future, her family knows this as well.

Tbh I don’t let her know it gets to me, I just ignore it and say it’s cool but honestly, this is bothering me a lot. Not only does he flirt with her at the crossfit gym, he know wants to join and train with her and her kickboxing gym, where I met her and train with her there. He has no clue who I am or that I even train there. She’s also naiive as fuck that this guy wants to bang her and I’m becoming very uneasy.. help…?

Make no mistake. She absolutely KNOWS. She knows his intentions. And she is even highly likely to be perceptive to your emotional state.

What she’s doing right now is subconsciously testing you and also paving a pathway for her to feel ‘not so guilty’ for when things happen between her and him.

My perception based on just these factors is that she’s not as much into you as you think she is.

At the very least she’s subconsciously waiting for you to draw strict boundaries in order to feel as attracted to you as she does to the other cool guy.

She’s not your woman yet. Odds are she won’t ever be.

My perception based on just these factors is that she’s not as much into you as you think she is.

At the very least she’s subconsciously waiting for you to draw strict boundaries in order to feel as attracted to you as she does to the other cool guy.

She’s not your woman yet.

She’s already texting you less and him more. Your relationship, as it were, is all but over at this point.

My Philadelphia advice…

Bang her a few more times.

Meet her just to bang.

Disregard anything she says to you at this point.

Disregard her glee or pretentious offense at her dynamic with the trainer.

Use dread. Flirt with other girls. The best thing you can do to save this relationship right now is to cheat on her.

But most importantly, it’s time to look for replacements.

Oh and one more thing… forget those poo aaa jokers… even tom cruise, Jack Nicholson and Donald trump would have a real hard time picking my girl up. They just won’t be able to.I’m actually willing to put money on this claim should someone feel the urge to challenge me.

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