Are Most Hot Women Narcissistic?

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I’ve heard that narcissistic people are attracted to narcissistic people.

Most of PUA/Game advice teaches you how to become more narcissistic, and attract hot narcissistic women (the women that display manipulative behavior like lots of shit tests, and you have to strip her of validation, etc).

My question is.. most of hot women are narcissistic?

I find myself sometimes facing relationships with women that display disrespectful behavior, won’t invest in you if you seem to invest a little more than them, they find BS excuses to talk to you, or you can get the idea that they see relationships as an status convenience/balance of power.

Playing games all the time..

I think all of these are narcissistic traits.

Should I avoid narcissistic women? (I think that investing and creating relationships with narcissistic women might be one of the reasons why self-esteem fluctuates).

There is some truth to this. As like attracts like, or same patterns attracts same patterns.

Most of PUA/Game advice teaches you how to become more narcissistic, and attract hot narcissistic women (the women that display manipulative behavior like lots of shit tests, and you have to strip her of validation, etc).

This is something I have wondered about to. Not all girls respond well to “neg”‘s, and “push – pull”. If we think about the childhood, and a girls Relation style.. They repeat it.. So, if you treat a girl push-pull, neg and stuff like that and she “falls for it”, it can be that this represent their childhood patterns.

Not all game teach you to be more narcissistic, but you defined that with writing “most pua game”. THAT type of game – the “narcissistic” type of game – i would specualte would attract more of the damaged kind of girls. The ones you would JUST want a ONS with.

When looking for girlfriend/longterm you would want to stay away from the narcistic girl. here you want to look for a “green flag” girl.

My question is.. most of hot women are narcissistic?

I dont think so. I think that would be Generalization, a cogntive bias. BUT there may be some truth to that most of the hot girls AT NIGHTCLUBS are more narcissitics (maybe?) There exist a lot of hot girls, that rarey goes out. Some that are super empatic. I think these girls also can fall for the narcistic game, but i dont think they will STAY in a relationship (if they have high self esteem) IF you play the narcisstic game.

I find myself sometimes facing relationships with women that display disrespectful behavior, won’t invest in you if you seem to invest a little more than them, they find BS excuses to talk to you, or you can get the idea that they see relationships as an status convenience/balance of power.

Playing games all the time..

I think all of these are narcissistic traits.

I agree. these are SIGNS that she may be unhealthy. Ecspaially the part with “disrespectfull” behaviour is a low self esteem trait. If a girl find an excuse to avoid you, well thats a girls way of reject you indirectly, and thats their right. But if you notice she reject you because you treat her good… red flag..

Its NOT allways “your fault” if others treat you disresepctfully….

Should I avoid narcissistic women? (I think that investing and creating relationships with narcissistic women might be one of the reasons why self-esteem fluctuates).

Well, if you are horny from the 1-10 scale . 7-8-9-10 – it may be worth banging a narcisstic girl. BUT i would NOT get into a relationship with them. I would stay away from them – if you are planning long term, or if they are in your social network (think of reputations and consequences). For your own self esteem sake – look for green flag girls – as stated, when it comes to LTR.

You are going to run into these problems if you are a PUA seducing women left and right like it’s a game. You open yourself up to the absolute worse human beings out there. Who the hell ever said accept all women? Stop objectifying them as HB 8s and 9s and look at them as human beings that are flawed. I only get along with like 10% of women I actually run into. When I first started, my character actually became worse by calibrating to attention whoring club chicks. I became more flakey, unemotional, apathetic, merciless, ruthless, etc. I adopted the personality traits of the women I was calibrating to. But that was when I was seeking validation from the worse people.

But after being an alpha leader of social tribes full of beautiful women, my frame corrected itself. I feel like I am 100% calibrated to the alpha leader mentality and make no apologies when it comes to correcting people who have been manipulated by marketing gurus. I don’t want to compare myself to Plato, but sometimes it feels I have seen the light and when I go back and tell people what I have seen, they yell blasphemy. How dare you question our gurus? Why would they ever try to deceive us? Pua community is a brotherhood!

After becoming 100% calibrated, my frame is screening and qualifying/rewarding women for exhibiting the character traits of a person I would like to have in my life. I really don’t look at myself as a seducer. I look at myself as a dominant guy that women try and seduce. This is my reality. When I say I am infinitely validated by women, I really mean it. I am not a seducer with 10/10 game. There is a reality even beyond that guy. That guy has no life. And he tries too hard. The effortless dominant man that women CALIBRATE TO – that is the guy you want to be. The king doesn’t calibrate to people. People calibrate to him because they are living in his reality and he has the most integrity.

Even a lot of pua gurus can’t fathom this reality. They are stuck in the matrix of seducing women with 10/10 game….not realizing that most hot women are needy, desperate, flawed, and aren’t relationship worthy. This is the problem that most guys run into and especially the OP – they are trying to calibrate to fucked up women. This is the WRONG frame. The correct frame is being the king and having people calibrate to YOUR standards. If you are going to adopt identities, why the hell would you want to be a lowly seducer? Be a king instead. It’s all a frame game. Your identity is what matters, not your “game”.

This is the natural “alpha male” frame. I don’t know where puas get their frames from but it has nothing to do with real life successex and abundance with beautiful women. A male seducer is looked down upon by women. He is considered low value. While the dominant man sleeps with just as much, if not more women EFFORTLESSLY. He is the one being pursued by all the women who got their game from cosmo magazine. The REAL game is being the king and having women calibrate to you. Who needs 100% calibration when you are the highest value person being chased? Nature created you to be dominant and have women pursue you, not the other way around. A man’s destiny is to dominate, rise, and become king – and his entire tribe adopts his character traits. The greater the king’s character, the more likely the tribe will survive and flourish.

Stop being a low value seducer and start being a confident man with standards. You don’t have to take the backdoor into the dating game, you can take the front door. There is no need to be sneaky and overcompensating. Play the game straight up and reward/disqualify people based on YOUR standards. No need for super-hero identities to make yourself sound cool to community guys. They are all geeks and insecure anyway. Most pua tactics are overcompensating behaviors. As the alpha leader of my social circles, shit tests don’t even exist. I once told Zakariah that shit tests don’t really exist and he thought I was talking crazy. I never ever remember getting shit tested by any woman in my social circles, no matter how hot they are.

And I know what you guys are thinking – what about the night clubs? When I am out in the nightclub, I carry the same screening/qualifying frame so women don’t even have the opportunity to shit test or screen me. My frame is forever embedded in my head no matter my physical environment.

The frame I am talking about is completely reversed from the community. I am the alpha chooser. I don’t fall into the night club frame of guys pickup up chicks. I still act like the king and my dominant frame re-frames other people’s frames and they unconsciously act out my reality. Women seduce me and guys buy me drinks. The frame is always coming through.

The frame is always coming through

Being the alpha chooser is one element a lot of PUA gurus/community guys are completely oblivious to. They don’t know that even beyond their mythical hero the “natural”, exists an alpha chooser…a king of tribes, that actually screens and disqualifies women – no matter where he is at. In his tribe, or at a night club. This frame is beyond even most pua gurus’ realities. They are stuck in the matrix of seducing women and have built their entire philosophies around it, even borrowing from evolutionary psychology. They think everything is a test and that all women want to be taken so you need 10/10 game. In actual reality, women have their own “game” that they save for the alpha chooser. Women get needy and desperate for his validation. It is the women who “neg” alpha choosers. Mystery simply borrowed female game and turned it around on them, but of course, only insecure women fall for it. This is why most puas are beta. The king of all puas, Mystery, borrowed female game to overcompensate. The frame that puas are stuck in is not even based on real life success with women.

As a pua, your frame is inherently feminine trying to seduce the masculine. Mystery backwards engineered female game under the guise of evolutionary psychology. Men don’t neg. Men dominate. Women neg to knock the king off his pedestal. Women neg to get your attention. A pua is a seducer. Women seduce, not men. Dominant men screen and choose women. And he discards the low quality women. A lot of guys are mentally weird and stuck in the most beta and feminine frame because of community brain washing.

Coming from the frame of the most dominant man, women would never dream of shit testing him. They are the ones trying to seduce him and feel like they are walking on eggshells. He is the one screening/qualifying them, seeing if they are good enough. PUA’s have it completely backwards and think the game is about being a tiny ant who has to seduce the red queen. I don’t know where pua’s get their ideologies from, but it has nothing to do with being an alpha male in a tribe.
Men dominate. Women use tactics. Just remember that the next time you think about “game”. It will make you realize how brainwashed you are.

The REAL game has nothing to do with your “game”. It has nothing to do with what you are doing to her. It has everything to do with who you are BEING. And who she is being. And when two great beings come together, they become infatuated with one another. There is no such thing as seduction. High quality women never had to seduce me. I was already sold. And the more I try to live my life with purpose, I find it that I have no need to seduce women. And thus, it’s not even a fucking game. It’s about being quality and having quality in your life.

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