How To Get A Friend With Benefits

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August 5, 2011

How To get A Friend With Benefits
by Terrence Michaels

For anyone unaware of the term “friends with benefits,” this type of relationship offers the perks of a serious relationship, but does not require any type of commitment. Therefore, there are no strings attached. At this point, some may think of this as something they could only dream of, while others may look and say never. If you are one of the people who thought this is something you could only dream of then read on.

Before going on, it is important to think over how this type of relationship has the potential to ruin a friendship. In addition, you have to make sure this kind of relationship is something you could handle. In the case that you decide to have this type of relationship with a current friend or someone you meet it may be a good idea to make sure they are not dating someone.

All in all, having friends with benefits does offer some benefits. Some of the main benefits have to do with how you are not required to answer to someone or buy gifts. Furthermore, you do not have to worry about going out on dates and are not looked down on for calling them on the nights you are wasted and horney walking out of the bar.

How to find a Friend with benefits
One of the first things to do is think about are the friends you currently have and whether any type of potential exists for this type of relationship. However, if you do not know someone then consider going out to meet someone. The main goal is to find someone who will mutually agree to this type of relationship.
Feel the Relationship Out

Always feel things out with those you consider potential friends with benefits. You can do this by having a conversation with them in order to find out their views on sex and whether they are in a point in their life where they just don’t want to have a relationship. Most of the time, if someone says they are open on their views about sex or misses it, then there is a chance they will go for this type of relationship.

Another way to feel out the relationship involves joking around. Just make a comment about making out with them and see how they react. Text messages are another way to bring it up as well. In any case, make sure they understand that you are not interested in a steady relationship.

In addition, it does not hurt to go out and look for those who have similar relationships as yourself. Furthermore, when you are talking to them make sure they are aware of your sexuality and interest. In some cases, it may be best to look for someone who is the opposite of what you would ever want with a partner in a serious relationship.

Openly Discuss the Friends with Benefits option
By doing this, both of you are aware of what the other person wants out of the relationship. All the while work on building attraction so that both of you are ready to take the next step. Ultimately, it is important to set rules for both of you to follow.

Therefore, openly discuss the types of things that you do not like. This way if you set boundaries, each of you are more likely to avoid accidentally stepping on each other’s toes. Additionally, always make sure to practice safe sex and discuss whether either one of you has anything the other should know about. Make sure both of you are ok with the other person dating someone

Considerations
Whenever you have a friend with benefits, it is important to treat them with respect. This means that you should not flaunt your relationships with others to them. In addition, keep in mind how it is not right to get intimate and kick them out. In the end, this boils down to social etiquette. This should apply regardless of whether one of you oversteps one of the boundaries set or not.

Always remember how there is a difference with enforcing boundaries and disrespecting someone. On another note, there is a good chance that one of you will end up developing feelings for the other person who has none to offer in return. When this type of situation arises, there is a good chance someone will get hurt or the relationship turns into more.

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